Please refer to this blog if you haven't read it yet.
I am struggling as I start to write this blog. Why? Because up to now I still do not want to admit that after all the things my dad has endured during the 2nd phase of his chemotherapy, colon cancer cells has spread to his liver and abdominal walls (stage 4). Those who have medical backgrounds or with family members who have gone through the same thing knows that if left untreated, he may have at least 6 months or the most 2 years to live. After a conference with his oncologist and consultations with his siblings, who are mostly in the medical field, he was told that there is a big chance that he may beat this disease if he undergoes a 3rd phase of chemotherapy and surgery right away.
What is stopping him now from getting the treatment that he needs is the lack of funds since the first two phases of chemotherapy has nearly depleted the family's savings. We need about 4.5M to cover his initial treatment and surgery (that does not cover maintenance dose after surgery) but we only have less than 800,000 left in the bank right now. And even if we get to sell whatever properties we still have it will not reach half of what we need.
My dad has told us that enough is enough and he would rather that we prepare for his palliative care to spare him from pain when the end comes. But could anyone blame us if we go behind his back and try to look for ways so that he can have his treatment and surgery?
And so, our dear friends, relatives, former workmates and acquaintances (Yes, with all humility I implore even those I do not know personally) in behalf of my family I would like to request for your support, may it be in any form/kind or amount.
As for now I am open to pledges as I still have to make sure of the account number / bank account or address where you can send your donations. Thank you very much in advance!
Sincerely,
Katy Libarnes
*super big hugs* katy! this is such a difficult time for you and your family. i pray that you and your dad will surpass this. God gives us miracles in ways we could never imagine. have faith... everything will be okay soon
ReplyDeleteEverything will be fine..believe in miracle.God is true and merciful.
ReplyDeletethank you so much Barok and Ka Erni! yes we do believe in miracles! having friends like you miracle enough for me! my family and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts!
ReplyDeletewe will pray for your dad's early recovery. i know you are, but still- be strong! God is on your side!
ReplyDeletethank you so much po
ReplyDeletehi katy, i heard about your dad's condition through my SPCQ batchmate. i am currently a writer for several publications and i have come across a treatment center in China that offers hope for cancer patients. some former patients were saying that the treatment at FUDA actually came across as less expensive than having treatments in the Philippines, with a higher success rate. hope this helps.
ReplyDeletethank you Maan will definitely look into it
ReplyDeleteHi Katy. Honestly, I don't know how to comment because it's very heart-breaking to hear the news. My best offer is a heartfelt prayer. I hope you could have him say this prayer with you.
ReplyDelete"Dear God, I still thank you for the chance to acknowledge you in my life. I admit before you that I am a sinner. I need your forgiveness and love. I thank you for your Son Jesus Christ, who died on the cross for the forgiveness of my sins. Lord Jesus, please come into my heart, come into my life. I accept you as my personal Lord and Savior. Thank you for the gift of eternal life, as you have promised to those who believe in You. Please heal me. Have mercy on me. I believe that You are a miracle-working God. This I pray, in Jesus' Name. AMEN."
May God strengthen you and your family. The Lord provides!
dear anonymous i wish i could get your name so i could properly thank you for the prayer that you have shared. thank you again we do need all the prayers we can get
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